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How To Get To The End Of The Rainbow

Posted on 25. May, 2010 by admin in Dating, Success

Why is it that some people have all the luck, while so many fall short of their dreams? Instead of daydreaming about how to reach your goal, try this instead: Imagine as if you have already reached your goal and then plan your way backwards. I’ll explain how this technique has worked for me and it will work for you.

Deep down inside, most people do not play to win. More often than not, people anticipate failure so failure is what they focus on. What you focus on determines the direction you take, good or bad. There is another way. Visualize your desired goal as an achieved accomplishment and then plan backwards. Planning leads to confidence, because much of the time a lack of confidence comes from a lack of preparation. It is truly amazing how your confidence can affect both your expectations and your results. Understand: having anything less than complete confidence will push people away from you and towards someone else who is more confident than you.

The two least constructive ways to think about accomplishing your goals is to assume you need more money or skills to get there. These are very common rationalizations because they keep us comfortable in our old ways, when what we really need is an emotional adjustment. We tell ourselves we need more money to do something when usually we need to create energy, excitement and enthusiasm within ourselves. We tell ourselves we need more skills or education to do something when all we need is more discipline and more effort. Enthusiasm and self-discipline are excellent ways to compensate for setbacks you may have. These positive, attractive qualities communicate to other people that they made the right choice to spend their time on you.

Terry Lee is an expert relationship coach and the creator of Dating Site Profits.

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